What is Fantacy ?
The idea of a fantasy is that your mind explores places that the body has no intention of visiting and acting out things one might never even think of doing in real life.
For a lot of couples their fantasies remain hidden desires that are tucked away in the remote corners of their heart.
Fear of rejection often leads couples to deny their unspoken desires.
“Contrary to popular perception, those who fantasise the most are engaged in loving, trusting and sexually satisfied relationships.” Said Sam Hindu.
Sexual excitement and libido to a great extent depends upon what you think of and how you plan,
Your sexual communion.
Sex usually begins in the brain.
So an active imagination gears up the mind, there by heightening the desire to an extent that arousal becomes much quicker adding to the sexual gratification.
That’s why discussing and performing one’s sexual fantasies are important for a couple to enjoy a highly satisfying sex life.”
As long as the individuals are healthy and their sexual fantasies do not impair their level of functioning or cause them or those around them any kind of stress, one can safely continue to enjoy one’s sexual fantasies.
So, instead of distancing your partner from your fantasies or alienating them from your wild dreams, try and communicate what’s on your mind to the,.
Open ended communication is key during sex.
You never know…even your partner might have woven some hot desires and thanks to your initiative they might just end up venting them thereby leading to a hot sexual communion.
And never ever judge your partner for expressing desire via group of words which does make sense for fulfilling satisfied bedroom life.
A list of the most highly cherished sexual fantasies often nurtured by partners either together or in seclusion.
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